Friday, May 25, 2007

--The Success Principles--

My friend is reading a book "You've got to read this book! " by Jack Canfield, . She told me there are 55 successful people (most of them known to you like Wally "Famous" Amos, Dave Barry, Kenny Loggins, Lou Holtz, Stephen Covey and John Gray, and some not like Sheryl Lynch, the creator of the children's TV show "Barney" and Earl Hamner; the creator of the TV show "The Waltons") shared their story about how one book that had dramatically changed their life, and in each case there was.

After her description, I just wondering is there any book that really inspired me and cause me take action.

"The Success Principles" by Jack Canfield. This book inspired me a lot, it's cause my brain aware a lot of successful theories. I realized what are the reasons hold me back, and I still struggle in a circle...

When I first time hold this book, I just wondering how am I going to finish it? Cause it contains 455 pages and 64 chapters! Wow! By that time, I really doubt myself. Before that, I've never complete one english book, it's really challenge!!!!

I forced myself must read two chapters everyday and I've finished it around two months time. After I've finished it, I went celebrate with my friends and announced my success....^_^

Below are some contents that really aware me...

Chapter 1: Take 100% responsibility for yourlife

..."If you want to create the life of your dreams, then you are going to have to take 100% responsibility for your life as well. That means giving up all your excuses, all your victim stories, all the reasons why you can't and why you haven't up until now...."

Chapter 4: Believe It's Possible

..."This is why it's so important to hold positive expectations in your mind. When you replace your old negative expectations with more positive ones---when you begin to believe that what you want is possible--your brain will actually take over the job of accomplishing that possibiliaty for you. Better than that, your brain will actually expect to achieve that outcome."

Chapter 22: Practice Persistence

..."Having lost his right leg to cancer, Terry Fox embarked on cross-Canada run called the Marathon of Hope in 1980 to raise money for cancer research. His shuffle-and-hop running style took him about 24 miles per day-close to a complete 26-mile marathon every single day--with an artificial leg! He managed to run for 143 days covered 3,339 miles from his starting point in St. John's, Newfoundland....."

Chapter 28: Clean up your messes and your incompletes

..."When we don't throw away clutter and items we no longer need, it's as if we don't trust our ability to manifest the necessary abundance in our lives to buy new ones. But incompletes like this keep that very abundance from showing up. We need to complete the past so that our present can show up more fully."

More and more...

I learned the important of persistency, consistency, responsibility, focus, goals setting....

Actually this become my "success bible", I love it. ^_^

Sunday, May 20, 2007

--What do you think????--

Three days ago, when my little 5 years old nephew on the way back home after kindi. You know what he did? Urination on the driver's car. This is the driver's own car.

My sister felt embarrass. She called the principal and the driver to appologize. Eventhough my sister tried to pay back the cleaning cost, but the driver so generous, he kept on saying it's small matter....

I thought this case settle...

Yesterday morning, I received this message from the kindi principal, "I felt quite bad that WS wet Mr. L's car. Do you think you can pay for his cleaning cost? I leave the amount for you to find out, at least it is a good gesture."

My mind came out a lot of question mark???? The driver said, "Doesn't matter.", and what happen to this principal?

I called him...

He suggested that I need to put the money into an envelop and pass to him to give to Mr. L. I still confuse that the driver said ,"Doesn't matter."

Is the principal too busy body?

In the conversation, I suggested that if he can elert the students go to toilet before leave.

Supprisingly! You know how he replied me,"I can't see through the child's urine bag, I don't know when the urine bag full or empty. So, how am I going to know when they want to go toilet or not???"

A kindi principal, a teacher said like this....

Wow! So irresponsible!!!!

For me, a responsible teacher must really care about the students, got a very good self personality. After mom sent their child to kindi, that mean kindi must take full responsible to the child.

From this case, I realized that some kindi principal not qualify to handle a child care center. From his message, he really can't forgive a small child, although after so many days....

Children education is very important. Is so important to choose a good kindi, with all the responsible, caring, passionate, and love teachers around.

Thursday, May 10, 2007

--Why You're Dumb, Sick and Broke...--

When you see the title, must be thinking what am I talking about?

Me too, when I first saw this title, I just wondering what this guy talking about? It really attract my attention.

I just finished this book called " Why You're Dumb, Sick and Broke..." by Randy Gage.

Because of the curiousity, I started my journey to understand why he said like that.

  • Money is bad.

  • Rich people are evil.

  • It is spiritual or noble to be poor.

  • If you struggle and grind it out, you'll be accepted by the rest of the nice people doing the same.

  • Underdogs and the little guys are good; big entities are bad.

  • You have to sell your soul to get rich.

  • Rich people lie, cheat, and steal.

  • CEOs, movie stars, and pro athlets are overpaid.

  • Rich people have lots of money, but they also have many additional problems. Being rich isn't worth it.

  • Money causes good people to go bad.

  • If you deny yourself now, God will provide true prosperity in the afterlife.

It may be hard to believe that something a teacher or parent said when you were six years old....

When I read through all these sentences, my mind sparkling...I heard these before and I don't realise that all these can be immersed in my subconscious mind and hold me back....

He also mention How Blockbuster movies keep you broke...This park quite interesting, cause he explained by giving Titanic, superman II as examples.

I like the 7 laws written in this book,

  1. The vacuum law
  2. The circulation law
  3. The imaging law
  4. The law of ideas
  5. The law of Reciprocity
  6. The law od Tithing
  7. The law of forgiveness

All amazing! I aware that all these 7 laws actually are the universal laws that govern prosperity.

After finished this book, I really feel energitic. I understand that to let go all the negative thoughts is very important, because all this negative feelings eat me up inside and prevent me from manifesting my good!

I've started to write my affirmations....How about you?

Here's two sentences very inspire me:

"You know that to love anyone else, you must first love yourself.

Your highest moral purpose must be your own happiness." ^_^

--Conversation with God--


I've watched "Conversation with God" twice...

Before that, I didn't know who is Neale. My friend kept on mention that he is one of the "The Secret" teacher. I still have no idea.

Since graduated from university, I had myself stay in a comfort zone long enough, that I almost forget about outside world - reality. I waited for my monthly pay check, yearly bonus and yearly increment.

One day, I suddenly realized that my income was actually not enough to support my future. After years of working, my saving account was zero. When can I have thousands or even millions in my account?

Beside that, I need to work a lot of over time as I had received increment. I've no holidays and time freedom.

Why my life looks like a 'robot'? Eat, sleep, work.... I was lost...

After I've watched "Conversation with God", I saw unexpected, I saw a cruel world....

At the end, Neale found LOVE, his life change.

Awareness. Suddenly, I am aware that I forgot what I want in my life, forgot my family, forgot my future...my tears came out. My mind started ask a lot of questions.

I appreciate and thank God that I've this chance to watch this movie....

Tuesday, May 8, 2007

--Nature green...--

My sister like to do handmade item, here is one of her stuff.



Here is her message:

"I grew up in a small village, where surrounded by a lots of green trees...

Every morning, I can feel the nature breath.

The fresh air touch my face. I enjoy with the nature music.

Green, is nature, is should be our earth colour, at least, I think like that...

Now, I live in a big town...I designed this bracelet, because I have a wish, wish that the person who wear this bracelet can feel the nature, just like what I feel...

I appreciate..."

I like this item very much, not only because the design, but the message she told me.

Yeah! We growth up in a very small village. The nature green always accompany us. I still remember every morning we can breath with very fresh air and listen to the nature music.

10 years ago, when I have to start my new life at Petaling Jaya, a industrial area. I started miss my hometown, the small village....

I appreciate the nature give me this opportunity to have this lovely childhood in a small village. Thanks " Our NATURE" , I always love YOU.....

Tuesday, May 1, 2007

--Welcome to my blog!!!--


Hi! I'm Candy, and because I'm a chienese, my family members and my friends like to call me Yin Peng. My surname is Chen.

I'm from Malaysia. Malaysia is a 'GREEN' country, because there are a lot of forests around...

I live in Petaling Jaya, Selangor and actually I come from Pahang, that mean the other state of Malaysia. My parents still stay there. Why we not stay together, cause my parents like that small village, and their old old friends...

I work at Selangor, that's the reason I need to stay here.

I'm a chemist.

I've worked in the same lab for 7 years already. Analysis, research, help to improve product formulation...all these become my daily job. Sometimes felt excited, when I successed to finish some new product! But, sometimes a bit bored, because have to do repeat and repeat the same experiment!

I like to read books, especially nowaday. I spent around thousand dollar to buy books. Last few years, I immersed in the chinese books. End of last year, after I've attended one program called, "Money and You", I started to read English books.

Why I name this blog "Awareness Path"? I'll tell you later....^_^